Showing posts with label mexican. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mexican. Show all posts

Jul 22, 2010

blogger advice, and salsa.

recently, i've been thinking a lot about the influence and responsibility we carry have as bloggers.

with the ability to share our thoughts with all of kingdom-come does comes with a price. if you write something, more than likely, someone will read it. and if someone reads it, you have just influenced them in some way.


and yes, i know this is your personal space. for some of us, it's our diary. we pour out our most private thoughts, desires, and fears. it's our place to let it all go; to find our release. it's therapy.

... and that's awesome. that's what a diary is for! i would much rather you vent your angers and frustrations here than drown your sorrows in tequila later.

don't get me wrong, either: i believe in free speech. i would never pretend to tell you what you can and cannot do. your blog is your prerogative.

but i can't ignore the seemingly flippant attitude that keeps popping up in my google reader.

if you would consider your blog your diary, you pretty much get a free pass here. pass go and collect $200. you share your thoughts with your friends, and you don't expect anything more from it but companionship and stress-release: a perfectly good use of social networking.

but if you believe your opinion commands respect, authority, and action, watch yourself.

what caused this bunch in my britches? well honestly, i've kinda wanted to smack one of my (previously) favorite bloggers. and it takes a lot for me to get ticked off.

i feel no need to name names, but basically, this blogger recently seems to feel they are an expert in all areas... politics, supplements, veganism, you name it. and that's all fine and dandy, except for the fact that much of the information they post "as fact" is completely inaccurate.

i'm certainly not trying to toot my own horn, or say i'm better than this person. they're hilarious, always make me think, and have introduced me to many new products. they also have probably 293874293874 times more readers than i do. 

my problem is that this blogger hasn't researched the opinions they are passing on to their readers.

if this blogger prefaced their thoughts by saying something like "well, this is what's worked for me," or "in my opinion," i would get off their case. but far too often, i come across people who don't know what their talking about pushing their thoughts as facts that EVERYONE should follow.

sometimes, it's no big deal. but other times, it could really impact someone. for example: if you eat like crap, that's swell. i wish you wouldn't, but it's your life and your wallet, so you eat however you please.

but advising confused readers to exactly copy your habits, and then guaranteeing health and happiness, like i've seen a lot of recently? now i'm gettin' ticked. your choices are your own decisions, but misleading someone with inaccurate information is just downright shameful.

and my place in all this? here's the scoop: i'm 20 years old. i'm immature, haven't experienced all life has to offer, and don't pretend to know everything.

what i do on a daily basis works for me, but it certainly doesn't work for everyone. but what i post on my blog, i hold myself accountable to.

if i say something, you'd better believe i've put time and energy into it. i've researched it, thought about it, asked around, exhausted it, read about it, and just generally am incredibly passionate about it. not to say i'm never wrong, but if i am, it will be a GENUINE error on my part. and if i don't know the answer, i won't give you my thoughts until i do. period.


there's a difference between posting your feelings/thoughts on something, and telling other people to believe something as fact

if you blog with a purpose, whether it's product reviews, nutritional advice, animal rights awareness, etc., you are directly influencing others and the way they think. even if someone doesn't agree with you, what you say will subconsciously stick with them.

what should you ALWAYS do when you read personal media/opinions?

1. think for yourself! you have a brain, use it!

2. don't doubt your intuition. if it seems wrong, it probably is.

3. research, research, research! never take something at face value.

4. consider the source: are they an authority on the matter? have a degree in it? years of life experience? a reputable source?

5. stand up for yourself: don't be afraid to challenge them, or double check their sources.

please know this: i want my blog to be a safe, encouraging place. if i can help it BY ANY MEANS, i will not post something irresponsibly. and always feel free to ASK ME ABOUT IT! i just wanted to warn you guys.

ok, rant over. i hold nothing personal against this blogger, seriously. it was just a recent example that came to mind showing you guys how dangerous blogging can be, if you aren't careful. just because someone says something confidently doesn't mean you can check your sense of reason at the door.


now, on something a little happier.

like mexican food.

fresh, summery salsa recipe
adapted from simply recipes, of course.
- 2-3 medium tomatoes, about 1 1/2 lbs (i used cherry tomatoes from mom's organic garden!), diced
- 1/2 huge red onion, diced
- 3 or 4 jalapenos, seeded and diced
- 2 or 3 big handfuls of fresh corn (unfortunately, i only had frozen)
- 1 lime, zested and juiced (very important!)
- 1 big bunch fresh cilantro, chopped fine
- 1 small bunch fresh oregano, chopped fine
- big pinch salt, little pinch pepper

directions: combine. let rest in the fridge a few hours to meld flavors.

that was difficult, i know... now, the pictures:








have you ever read someothing you knew was inaccurate on a blog?
what did you do?
what kinds of information do you post about?
-rebekah

May 8, 2010

reviews, races, and remembering momma.

ok... so when did i fall off the face of the blogosphere?
i have a bit to catch up with you guys!

first, can i just say how much i love robert downey jr?

om nom nom.
if going to prison is wrong, i don't wanna be right.

ahem.
iron man 2 was really good! i liked it better than the first one.

and i'm not gonna lie, as much as i want to hate her, can i trade lives with scarlett johansson?
she's absolutely crazy in this movie.

ironic how they're posing identically.

anyways, if you liked the first iron man, go see the second one.
or if you didn't give a crap abou the first one, go watch my husband robert downey jr!


on a completely related note, i got to go to a new favorite restaurant last week!
palani drive is a cute little place in the older part of richmond. the best way i know how to describe it is... fusion? like a mix of vegetarian, mexican and asian food...


...which, coincidently, is the food that will be served in heaven.
salsa? hummus? tahini? cashews? peanut sauce?
i'll take it.

i'm little sister, she's big sister

and apparently i have a killer vein attacking my neck.
... no wonder i have such an attractive boyfriend.
Spicy Thai Peanut – rice, black beans, spinach, spicy peanut sauce, tomatoes, scallions, crumbled peanuts, chile tortilla – 5.95

la mama and i split this, and also ate this:

Palani Salad – mixed greens, tomatoes, cucumbers, carrots, scallions – 5.95

... and yes, that is a box of currants and a bottle of hot sauce in the background.
what, you don't bring your own accessories when you go out?
what do you carry in your purse then!?


also a noteworthy nosh:

from whole paycheck's hotbar, of course.
roasted beets, yeller squash, lemon asparagus, and the best 5 bean salad that must be recreated.
... jessica, get on that!
seriously, i could eat those beans every. flippin. day.


moving right along - today was one of the best days i've ever had.

bright and early, mom and i headed downtown to run the susan b. komen race for the cure,
a 5k fundraiser to fight breast cancer and increase prevention awareness.


there was a great crowd...
a few thousand people, for sure.


god totally blessed us with a perfect spring day to race.
love that breeze!



most of the race took place on the bridges over the river, which was really cool.


new favorite picture!
this fall, mom will have been in remission for 4 years.
needless to say, we were feeling a little celebratory mid-run.


the 804, baby!


home stretch...


the view from the bridge.
sometimes, va ain't all that bad.


post-race, in all our shweaty glory.


shameless health plug:
you guys, if i can encourage you to do anything this mother's day, please lovingly encourage your mom to get a yearly mammogram!

my mom, like a lot of other incredible moms, put her health on the back-burner to raise her kids. if she had just taken the time for her mammograms, though, she might not have had to endure hell fighting breast cancer.

other things also raise your risk:
- drinking alcohol, even one drink a day
- being overweight, even a few pounds!
- not exercising consistently
these things seem like "normal" parts of life, but they're not healthy habits.

so please, please, please, nag your mom to make her health the top priority this year.
she can't be a good mom if she doesn't put herself first every once in a while, and prevention through a healthy lifestyle is the only way we can stop this monster.  


phew, you bored yet?
hopefully, tomorrow i will get the chance to post the second part of my thoughts i've been working...

and i've been really thinking about your definitions of beauty.
thanks for your thoughts, and keep 'em coming!
-r

Apr 21, 2010

grocery shoppin, thai food, important announcement, and first blogger meetup!

hey beauties!
i hope you guys are having a teriffic humpday morning.
i know i am. i am totally in love with spring weather!

before i bombard you with pics, can i just take a moment to say how grateful i am for you guys?
i love the community that i've been welcomed into!
you guys don't just make awesome food, but you're awesome people. thanks!

and shoutout to my dad - he just started reading! hey dad!

yesterday, i had an awesome foodie day - grocery shoppin, thai food for lunch, and my first blogger meet up at whole foods! and an announcement :)
shall we begin?

tom leonard's... richmond version of harris teeter i guess?


look how hairy this guy is!



local produce? yes please!
the staff kept looking at me funny when i'd whip out my camera,
so i exercised restraint. boo.

look what i found! someone excited?
i couldn't justify dropping $6 dollars on 4 bars when i had a CARTLOAD of produce...
priorities, right??

oh look. i found a few cows.

next stop? world market!
if you haven't even been, check out the website. they have a unique collection of foods and decor from around the world.
sign up for their rewards program for awesome discounts on wine, if you imbibe :)


A WALL OF HOT SAUCE!!!
i'm home.

i'm always keepin' my eyes peeled for a new kind of hot sauce or salsa.
i use them everyday multiple times!

if you guys have any hot sauce/salsa recommendations, please let me know!

ok... am i the only one with a dirty mind???
(sorry mom.)

next stop: thai diner too!
mom heard that this place was one of the best in richmond.
not sure anything could beat tara thai, but whatever.
we gave it a shot.
free appetizer neither mom nor i ate.
when i touched it, my hands got slimy... oil anyone?
their "tempura veggies" was a fried piece of broccoli... lol.

our entrees -
thai chef salad with scallops in chili-lime sauce...

...and bamboo shoots stir-fried in sriratcha.


if you guys have never eaten thai food before,
you should know:
when you say "hot" or "spicy" to a waiter in a thai restaurant, they don't mean american hot... they mean thai hot. if you aren't up for a tear-inducing, sinus-clearing experience, order "medium."
mom couldn't eat this, and she's a trooper!

last stop? my first blogger meetup!
so exciting!!! stephanie was sooo nice to include me in her date with miss brittany!
they go every month to a cooking demo at whole foods, where they cook following a theme.
this month was cinco de mayo, so we got AMAZING mexican food! and the chef was awesome - he went to johnson & wales for his culinary degree (my dream!), was really cool, and was pretty cute!

... and get this - he asked me for my blog link so he could follow me!!!
i have a follower! i'm just happy outside of my head right now.
(hey chef jesse!)

gettin' ready for my girls' date.

thanks so much to stephanie's mom for taking 10000 pictures of us!
she's so sweet, and gets the blog thing.

super weird?
stephanie's little sister was in my spanish class in high school!
small world, right?

and if you guys don't already read stephanie and brittany's blogs, check them out!
they are total sweethearts, and cook amazing food!

our menu - hello salsa!

my first taste of ceviche! this one was made with tilapia and jicama.
amazing!
chef jesse mixed it with his homemade salsa. i die.
i sense a homemade salsa recipe coming up... :)

guac!!!
i haven't had guac in years because it usually has sour cream added to it, and i HATE sour cream.
let's just say i am a fan ONCE AGAIN. as if i needed convincing with avocados...


amazing tacos with adobo chili hot sauce.

the damage...

what a great experience!
thanks again to stephanie for thinking of me!

and my announcement?
i got invited to be a hollaback girl!
a what?
the hollaback girls are a beautiful group of bloggers who think that health blogging needs a bit of help.
we don't bash our bodies, we don't complain about what we can't do, and we are strong, powerful women that treat our bodies that way.
head over and check out the site, and keep your eyes peeled for my first post!

happy hump day!!!
-r